Bhai Dooj
Bhai Dooj celebrates the bond of brother-sister love and marks the end of the five-day long Diwali celebrations. It is known by many names throughout the country- Bhau Beej (in the Goa, Maharashtra and Karnataka), Bhathru Dwithiya, Bhau-Deej, Bhai Phota (in Bengal), and Ningol Chakuba (in Manipur), etc.
Legends behind Bhai Dooj
- The story of Lord Yamraj
As per the Ancient Mythology, in the Kartik month of Hindu solar calendar, on the ‘Shukla Paksha Dwitiya’, Lord Yamraj (the god of death) visited his sister Yamuna. She gave a grand welcome to her brother by performing the sacred aarti and applying ‘tilak’ on his forehead. She offered the special delicious dishes that she had prepared for Yamraj. In turn, he showered his blessings on Yamuna. It was on this day that Lord Yamraj gave a boon stating that if on this day, any brother would visit his sister then he would be blessed with utmost health and wealth. Due to this reason, this day is also referred to as ‘’Yam-Dwitiya’’.
- The Story of Lord Krishna
According to another legend, on the second day after the new moon day, Lord Krishna visited his sister Subhadra after killing the Demon King Narkasura. Just as Yamuna had given a grand welcome to Lord Yamraj, in the similar manner, Subhadra also performed the aarti, applied tilak on Lord Krishna’s forehead and sprinkled flowers over him.
Traditional Celebrations
According to the rituals, sisters prepare the sacred thaali, apply ‘tilak’ on the foreheads of their brothers, perform the aarti and pray for their well-being and brothers take a pledge to keep their sisters safe.
How to celebrate Bhai Dooj at home?
- Narrate the story behind Bhai Dooj.
- Encourage your children to arrange the sacred thaali with the mauli, tilak, few grains of rice and some sweets.
- Dress up in traditional clothes.
- Motivate your children to make personalised cards and gifts for their siblings.
- Invite your relatives and friends to celebrate this festival together.
This auspicious day celebrates the love, affection and respect you share with your sibling. It’s also the perfect time to pray for your brother’s long life. Happy Bhai Dooj!
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